Tough Times..Deep Shit, lessons to learn
Sunday, September 04, 2011
There is always something to learn, whether it be any situation or any person you come across. The tough time is the testing time for you and the things and people around you. You should not be too critical about the motives and what people say and what they do; the only thing to consider is what the ramifications of your deed would be, and how you can come out of the difficult situation and overcome the sadness or the misery that you are facing.
First of all, the past and future are only in the mind; they don't exist in the present, so never think of them and ruin your present. Most importantly stop blaming others for what they do and what they are, stop condemning, and arguing, and even don't complain to anyone about anything, this will work into your negative, never use your failure as an alibi for any wrong you have committed, it feels like you are trying to gain sympathy, never complain you might get tagged as a fault finder n trouble chaser. Never explain things too much, people, in general, are not interested in the details; most of them read headlines in newspapers, so how can they be interested in your details...??
Always feel happy, as said, happiness is a conscious choice and not a state. You can never gain happiness if you pursue it; rather, happiness is a journey. Being good to others is a different thing, and being concentrated on self goal is different; they don't conflict with each other. Do what good you can do to others, but also you should do good to yourself. The time spent reminiscing or crying over the spilled milk will never come back. Have someone to trust in you, and if not, be that person yourself; also, have trust in someone, if not, then have faith in yourself, and if you believe in God, have trust in his powers.
Eat well, laugh out loud often, sleep on time, keep in mind your wrongs and try not to repeat them, don't hurt anyone, and take special care of the people who love you. Keep on giving, it will come back, maybe not from the same person, but your good deeds will never be wasted.
"Cos all of the stars are fading away,
Just try not to worry, you'll see them someday,
Take what you need and be on your way,
And stop crying your heart out,
Get up... Come on... why are you scared?
You'll never change what's been and gone."
'Stop Crying' by 'Oasis'
Sketch made by - Me :-)
Sketch made by - Me :-)
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